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July 1, 2008 @ 10:47 pm

Celebrating 34 Years On Earth

As I typed the title above, I recalled I once did the same during my previous birthday, I think that was 8 years ago, when I was celebrating (34-8=26) years old. Seems like certain things don’t change.

Anyway, I’ll be celebrating my 34th birthday in another 2 1/2 hours time. Every year I get depressed when it comes to celebrating my birthday. Not that I feel I’m another year older, but because I still don’t find myself as good as I had wished to be.

I felt worst on my 30th birthday, I thought I should be a millionaire by then, but I hadn’t become one.

I felt equally bad on my 32nd birthday, I thought I should be married and have my first kid then, but it didn’t happen.

This year, I was hoping to throw a big birthday bash and have whole bunch of people coming to my party and make me feel like a superstar. But I have decided instead, to go home and spend my birthday with people whom I care a lot.

I have decided to stop wishing for people to do something for me, to make me happy. I have learned, true happiness is when you can make others happy. And I know I will surely be happy this year. Happy birthday to me.

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  1. Posted by Chris~

    July 2, 2008 @ 12:33 am

    Blessings received in ur past 34 yrs on earth
    1. Being able to be ur own boss, doing the work u love
    2. Having family n frens who love u
    3. Being able to spend time with those u care abt on ur bday
    4. Good health which allows u to do anything u like
    5. Money for the simple pleasures in life…ok maybe not a house or an audi, but enuff for ur fav xbox games, cup of coffee, food etc
    :…..u count ur own blessings lah

    Blessings to look forward to in the next 34 yrs in His time
    1. Successful business
    2. Happy marriage with kids, grandkids
    3. Good health
    4. Greater financial freedom to enjoy more things e.g car, house

    Happy Birthday n May all ur dreams come true!

  2. Posted by Dean

    July 3, 2008 @ 6:36 pm

    You must have read through more than just one page of my blog to be able to count the blessings for me, and for that, I thank you :)

    I thank you too for your well wishing, and for the reminder that I shall continue to look forward to more blessings.

    I’ll buy you coffee when I’m back in town ;)

    P/s: By the way, I have had a wonderful time indeed. I’m glad that I had chosen to go back.

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Dean started blogging since 1999. In the beginning he wrote a lot of personal stuffs, so personal till he decided to shut down the blog as he didn't think it was a good idea for his girlfriend to read about his ex-girlfriends.
Then, shortly after he got bored, so he started to blog again, and he wrote a lot of work stuffs, so much about work till he decided to shut it down as he didn't think it was a good idea for his boss to read about his ex-bosses.
Now, Dean is bored again, and since he doesn't have girlfriend (at the moment) and he doesn't work for any boss, he thought, he might as well blog again. And this time, it is going to be just about everything!

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